As the fall season begins, it reminds me to reflect back on the year.  How have I changed?  How have I grown?  Have I been purposeful in my direction?  Destiny is one of those words that stirs both wonder and skepticism. Some believe destiny is etched in stone, predetermined, an unchangeable script that life forces us to follow. Others see destiny as the intersection of preparation and opportunity—a dynamic path shaped by the decisions we make every day.

If you’ve ever been passed over for a promotion—or worse, not even considered—you know the ache. It’s not just professional. It feels personal.

Recently, during a mini-workshop, Kaye, a participant, shared something that stopped the room: “I’ve been told more than once: ‘You’re too nice. You need to speak up more.’” She’s struggled with this feedback her entire career. She’s collaborative, loyal, and the first to volunteer for challenging projects without recognition. She believes in letting her results speak for themselves.